What is YOUR 3 year old reading?

*Shaking my head in shame*

I have always known that the American primary education system was failing students across the country, but today, I got a rude awakening as to HOW FAR this failure goes. Whenever a child learns to read by the age of 3 in America, we’re in awe. If a child can’t read by 4 in Ghana, they ask what’s wrong with him/her.

Today my father went to enroll the girls in elementary school. Nadjah being five and a half was expected to go straight into the kindergarten class, possibly even first grade.

“Can she read?” the principal asked.

“Well…I’m not sure,” replied my dad.

He knows that girl can’t read. Just 3 nights ago she asked him to read a book to her. If she could read, she’d do it herself.

When he got home to tell me about their (near) future matriculation, he was all a-chatter about the caliber of student at Faithway Christian Academy.

“You should see the 3 year olds, Malaka,” he said. “They were standing in front of the classroom, reading and reciting their ABCs…and writing them.” He droned on and on about how smart these kids were; which  indirectly said to me how dumb he might think mine are. Waves of shame suddenly washed over me. I pursed my lips.

“Oh yeah?” I said  in response to his reverie. “I see.”

Inwardly I fretted over my children’s academic success. Aya could be forgiven for being somewhat behind. After all, she just turned 4 two months ago and has never seen the inside of a classroom. Nadjah on the other hand is nearly 6, and is the victim of Georgia’s reprehensible and ridiculous policy which says no child can even set foot in a Pre-K facility until they turn 4 in September. Na was born in December, which means she had to sit out an entire calendar year before starting Pre-K. To add insult to injury, the Pre-K curriculum only requires children to be able to count to 10, and prior to her graduation, I have never seen her bring home a sheet of paper that proves she can write her alphabet free hand. (That was something I had to teach her at home myself.) Prior to attending Georgia public Pre-K, she could count and recognize numbers up to 30 by the time she was 3. All that training went down the drain when her numerical aptitude was replaced with songs about popsicle sticks and mischievous bunnies.

A friend of mine enrolled her 3 year old child in school in Ghana last year. In 3 months, she had learned her two times tables and could write her numbers from 1-20. A product of a Ghanaian education herself, my friend was terribly displeased with what her child’s private school in Texas was teaching her daughter – which was nothing.

“We believe in developing the whole child,” the administration said in defense of their curriculum. Sure, but in developing that whole child, can you throw some math and science in there too?

Looking into my eldest daughter’s eyes, I know she’s not ready to deal with the rigors of a Ghanaian school. The teachers will not brook opposition, rude interruptions or back talk – and she is the poster child for all three.

“This school doesn’t look fun,” she lamented, after she’d been introduced to her new teacher and class.

“It’s not supposed to be all fun, Nadjah,” I scolded lightly. “You will have fun when it’s time for that…at recess perhaps…but you’re here to learn.”

I asked her if she understood and she nodded forlornly.

Aya on the other hand picked up a sheet of paper, asked the principal for a pencil, and declared she was ready to start school.

Tonight, I’m praying that they can get through the first week without too many tears and/or being ejected from the school for some asinine reason…like jetting out of the classroom to chase chickens. When I rise in the morning, I’ll do the same thing. I know my children are smart, and can pick up material if in the right environment. Children are sponges, and can learn virtually anything – if parents and educators are willing to believe in them, challenge them, and set the bar higher than memorizing the theme song from Barney & Friends. It’s just a shame that (once again) it’s taken classroom full of 3 year olds from a “third world country” to demonstrate how far America truly has to go in terms of laying a foundation for academic success.

No wonder so many children get left behind.

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10 responses to “What is YOUR 3 year old reading?

  1. I have really taken to Nadja. I can imagine her classmates really loving her too. She sounds really smart too. I wish I had a car to lend you. Being in Accra without a car can be demoralising. But hey if you can find joy in chasing grain fed non-antibiotic chickens, you’ve got the power.

  2. Great points about the American school system. The fact that you decided to pull your daughters out of the failing system should help you help you kick that “wave of shame.” Your kids will pick up faster than you expect. Keep the memos coming.

  3. She’ll be okay. I was a slow starter myself. Didn’t read till I was almost 7 didn’t learn my times tables till I was 8. Like Edwin said, as long as you continue to set high standards for them, they will pick up faster than you expect.

  4. Oh Saturday’s child! I wish you had a car to lend me too! This taking dropping every day is killing my funds!

    Edwin, we’ll do our best. They are doing their homework as we “speak”. Of course Nadjah would rather play.

    David – I never knew you were a late starter. Perhaps there’s hope for my kids yet.Why did your mom keep you in the house so long? I need answers!

  5. Malaka, you have got me thinking about my little seed now. I need to start developing some kind of curriculum for her at home as well. I remember how hard it was for me when i started school in Ghana. I truly belive that it was my education in ghana that allowed me to achieve the little that i have thus far. Your girls will be fine!

  6. Oh no, I was actually in school, just wasn’t learning very quickly. So yes, your kids will be fine.

  7. Am so proud of you. It’s the best decision you have taken,and trust me they will sure catch up….i had known this that kids over here do little or no learning,so had to catapult my lil girl to start school in ghana,thanks to my big sister who has a school in Accra. You will be very proud of your girls in no time

  8. speaking of failures of the american school system – i’d love to hear your thought on this one: “Mother Jailed for Sending Kids to Wrong School District”

    http://drboycespeaks.blogspot.com/2011/01/mother-jailed-for-sending-kids-to-wrong.html

    • Michelle – I am aghast by what I’ve just read! Sadly, I’m not surprise. Upon all the barriers that this mother already faced, the judge just added another layer – and knowingly and happily so. This is supposed to be a land of opportunity. What good is that opportunity when ONE person can derail your entire future?? It’s not like she was caught with possession of a controlled substance…like say, I dunno, Paris Hilton…fine upstanding citizen that she is. This woman was merely trying to put her kids through school in an environment where they would have a more probable chance at success.

      I can’t believe this!

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