Mind of MalakaEssaysBooksPodcastsAboutContact
Mind of Malaka
Discover
  • Essays
  • Books
  • Podcasts
  • About
  • Contact
Essay Categories
  • Motherhood
  • Marriage
  • Madness
  • Musings
  • Photo Essay Friday
  • RHKOA
  • Say what??
  • The South African Series
  • Uncategorized
  • GH2013

© Copyright - Malaka Grant, 2026.   All Rights Reserved.   Privacy Policy & GDPR

See your future ahead of you

Latest Essays

Categories:  MotherhoodMarriageMadnessMusingsPhoto Essay FridayRHKOASay what??The South African SeriesUncategorizedGH2013
Marriage

Bedroom Games

8 comments

The phrase “bedroom games” means something different to you at every stage of your marriage and/or relationship with a significant other. When you’re a newlywed, it will most likely be construed as an exciting event, with two lovers getting hot and heavy under the covers. Perhaps one of them may dress up as Pocahontas and […]

Read more
Madness

Christmas Fun

3 comments

Every family has its own set of time honored Christmas traditions and rituals (if they are fortunate enough not to have the holiday cancelled by an over-zealous matriarch) that are performed year-after-year. It’s what keeps college students coming home, and if the traditions are particularly fun/amusing/special, individuals will attempt to share these with people outside […]

Read more
Say what??

OMG: Commit ME!

5 comments

As a rule, I generally don’t watch reality TV shows anymore. They all ‘jumped the shark’ a long time ago in my view. But last night, my baby boy wouldn’t go to sleep and the only thing that was of any interest on TV was The Sing-off, hosted by Nick Lachey. The Sing-off is a […]

Read more
Motherhood

I'll Trade You My Dignity for That Tunic

7 comments

In 2004 I was in the best physical shape of my life. I was the full back defender on a ladies Gaelic football team in Atlanta and running everyday. I had also just started my first professional job, pulling in $30K a year and receiving massive praise for the work I was doing from my […]

Read more
Motherhood

Just for you, Justin

0 comments

Every stage in your child’s life manifests something magical and comes with its own set of amusements. Their first steps, their first words, an uncanny aversion to the sound of a blender or a vacuum cleaner – each is special. At this point in my eldest’s 6 year old life, we are entering the realm […]

Read more
Musings

School for Blackness

0 comments

Every year, Asian-American families send their young to community centers to study their native tongue and immerse them in the culture and customs of their land of origin. They do this so that they can still maintain a connection to their roots and be just as versed in life as an Asian as they are […]

Read more
Musings

Poverty and Bliss

3 comments

I’m pretty sure I’ve said it before, and I’m going to say it again: This trip to Africa changed me forever…or has at least changed me for the foreseeable next few months. There was a time in my life when I was constantly worrying about EVERYTHING. At the slightest mishap, misstep, or diversion from my […]

Read more
Say what??

No Refills for YOU!

3 comments

I used to work for a recruiting firm in Marietta that hired a casserole of characters to serve as “recruiters”. It was a glorified call center, painted with slate blue walls and outfitted with slate gray cubicle-ettes (half cubicles that offered 0 privacy). 8.5 of the Black men that worked there were gay. The .5 […]

Read more
Marriage

Moonlight

4 comments

I was searching for an audio file for this song, but couldn’t find one. Click ‘play’ and let this tune serve as the backdrop as you read this post…in another browser. [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kS8eVFq1ZdU] Three weeks ago I lay in bed, staring at the ceiling. My husband prepared to drift off to sleep himself, equally weary from […]

Read more
  Previous Posts Next Posts