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The Surprising Ways In Which Helping Others Can Also Help You

Posted on November 21, 2019
by Malaka
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In 2009 I contracted as a recruiter in a boutique organization that sourced and screened resumes for Ma & Pop shops to Fortune 500 companies. It was a maddening, hectic time fraught with office politics, instability and hostility as a natural byproduct; but more than…

Seven Life Changing Lessons From the Movie ‘Dolemite’

Posted on November 3, 2019
by Malaka
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About a week ago, Netflix suggested a title that had my interest piqued upon visual contact. That title was ‘Dolemite Is My Name’. A little background might be helpful in understanding my excitement. The first time I heard the word Dolemite was in the early…

‘Niggerati Manor’ Is The Period Drama We’re All Ready For

Posted on July 31, 2019
by Malaka
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Niggerati: A blending of the words ‘nigger’ and ‘literati’, coined by unrivaled African American novelist, anthropologist and filmmaker, Zora Neale Hurston. Last week I received an email inviting me to participate in a literary initiative targeting young readers on the African continent. The person who…

‘Adventures’ Selected for IFP’s 2019 Episodic Lab

Posted on June 4, 2019
by Malaka
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MOOOOOOMMMMM SQUAAAAAD!!! I'm mad excited. Can you tell? Some of you guys know that I am the co-founder cum co-creator of a li'l blog that could called Adventures From the Bedrooms of African Women. This year marks our 10th anniversary of bringing the world a…

What ‘Bolden’ Teaches Us About Creative Genius, Community Mental Health and New Technology

Posted on May 13, 2019
by Malaka
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“Destroy a man’s soul and they will destroy each other.” – Judge Perry, Bolden https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r-4XA0QqDWY It is unlikely that you will hear much fanfare or discussion around the newly released Bolden, a biopic that centers on the life of once-famed cornet player Buddy Bolden. Once…

What’s The One Thing You Want Most In This Life?

Posted on May 9, 2019
by Malaka
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Have you ever woken up with a start, heart pounding and mind struggling to catch up with your thoughts at dawn? Of course you have. There’s no way you’ve made it into adulthood without experiencing a similar episode. What was it that jolted you from…

Kindness Is A Skincare Product

Posted on April 18, 2019
by Malaka
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A few days ago, the term “skincare product” was trending online for the simple reason that digital denizens deigned that it must be so. Reliably, mixed in with actual (and helpful) skincare product reviews and suggestions were hilarious proposals. Some of my favorites include: Ronke…

We Spent A Very Happy (Un)Pi(e) Day With Prince of Tarts

Posted on March 14, 2019
by Malaka
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Today is Pi(e) Day! I always feel an intense pang of disappointment – bordering on anxiety – when anyone reacts to this salutation with a flummoxed “Huh”? The glazed over eyes, the furrowed brows and wrinkled noses all serve as a reminder of my evangelical…

In Celebration Of My Favorite Black Villains

Posted on March 13, 2019
by Malaka
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I’ve been having strange dreams lately. (And no, Tia, it’s not the gin.) Over the course of the past eight days or more, I’ve dreamt that I’ve engaged in acts that range from the unspeakable to the bizarre. When I eventually find a therapist, I…

Can You Trust Your Friends to Give an Unbiased Opinion?

Posted on February 22, 2019
by Malaka
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Event: I goofedTime: Feb 22, 09:30 Who is the first group of people you’re advised to approach whenever you have a new idea/product/thing that you want to share with the world? Come and get your cookie if your answer is “friends and family”. For us…