Mind of Malaka

Gin and Gender: The Sexist History of My New Favorite Drink

Posted on February 22, 2022
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I have recently discovered South African craft gin and it has quickly become my go-to drink. As an African, Christian and granddaughter of whom I have been told were two raging alcoholics, I wouldn’t say I have a “difficult” relationship with spirits and brew, but…

Musings

The Trials of a Once Cheerful Giver

Posted on February 8, 2022
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We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement;…

Musings

Soon Leaving Africa Voluntarily & Expeditiously: Part 2

Posted on February 3, 2022
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This story continues from Part 1 “I am Captain McGinty. I will be responsible for your arrival to your various checkpoints within the Federation of Industrialized Nations - should you survive the journey. These two men are my associates: Mr. Wong and Mr. Jenkins. They…

Musings

We Have Become Our Aunties

Posted on January 21, 2022
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My mother was a founding member of AAAG (the African-American Association of Ghana) in the late 80s/early 90s. They were the group responsible for bringing and hosting several African-American celebrities and influencers -before the term was coined- in Accra. Many of the members were entrepreneurs,…

Musings

I Have Lots of New Goals For 2022. How I Plan to Pave My Road to Success With A Series of Robust “Hell Nawls”

Posted on January 10, 2022
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You've heard of the Law of Attraction, right? It's the idea that both we and our thoughts are made of pure energy and that like energies will attract each other. So if you're ill, for instance, you can attract healing energies to your body if…

Musings

Tattoos, Soca and Roots. 2021 May Have Been One of My Happiest Years Yet

Posted on December 28, 2021
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2021 was an incredible year. Now, I am willing to concede that any block of time sparkles - blindingly - in comparison to the hellscape that was 2020, however in real and quantifiable terms I can confidently say that this year was one of the…

Motherhood

Aboriginal Australians Send Their Pre-Teen Boys On a ‘Walkabout’. I Wish I Could Send My Son On One Too.

Posted on December 20, 2021
by Malaka
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The rules of Thunderdome are easy: Two men enter, one man leaves. This is what it's felt like living with my son for the past 18 months - like I'm locked in a cage fight with an adversary bent on bending me to his will…

Marriage

‘Tis The SZN For Proposals! Here Are A Few Things To Consider Before You Put A Ring On It.

Posted on December 9, 2021
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Ahhhh, the Yuletide. Do you know why they call this the “most wonderful time of the year”? Okay, truth be told there isn’t one specific reason, but for folk like me the Chritsmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa portion of the year brings so much joy for one simple reason:…

Motherhood

Are We Being Fair To Our Boys?

Posted on December 2, 2021
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This morning I got a call from my son's homeroom teacher. She told me she had a bit of bad news to share. My thoughts immediately went to the worst possible scenario. Was my son dead??? And how did it happen?!? Why else would she…

Madness

10:36

Posted on November 29, 2021
by Malaka
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I am not the most meticulous person, but I do believe in the power and efficiency of lists. Most mornings I create a to-so list for the day and relish the rush of crossing off action items throughout the day. Extra thrill points if I’m…